• Men are ‘dicks’ and women are ‘psychos’…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, similar one here and here Jacket: H&M, old, similar one here and here Body: Zara Skort: River Island Socks: ASOS Shoes: Primark, old, similar ones here The above statements are the common phrases or descriptions of ex’s ‘men are dicks’ (which they can be!) and ‘women are psychos’ (which we can be!).  BUT I think these phrases are SO overused and under-explained.    That is such a common phrase I’ve heard from guys… ‘my ex is a psycho. FULL STOP.’ And then thats it. (They obviously don’t say the full stop. I just wanted to emphasis it lol). No explanation. No reason. No backstory. Nothing.…

  • Baby, Talk is Cheap…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Primark Jacket: Primark, old. Alternative ones here and here. Top: Shein Skirt: H&M, old. Alternative ones here and here. Belt: Primark, old. Similar one here. Shoes: Miss Selfridges, old. Alternative ones here and here. This SNTC talk is cheap episode inspired me to right this post… if I have any SNTC fans then no I did not have a lick in the ass experience (recently!) but just the title in general have me thinking.    Talk IS cheap.  I remember saying/thinking that actions speak louder than words. However the reason why talk can be important is that it highlights INTENT. The intention can colour the way…

  • A Mini what I got for my birthday and a trip down memory lane…

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Shein Chocker: Topshop, old other options here and here Unitard: Motel Boots: River Island, old, other options here and here I say a mini what I got because I can not write too much about what I got for my birthday. Partly because I dunno what to say about how happy I am for all the thoughtful gifts without getting too mushy. My friends read my blog so… love you guys! ahaha! And another reason why its because I did a fantastic photoshoot with my friend Julie and I really, really want to use them photos too so here it goes! My ‘feeling fine at 29…’…

  • Feeling fine at 29…

      GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara Crop Top: Shein Bralet: Shein Skirt: Primark, similar one here and here Shoes: Nike If you asked me when I left school where I would be at 29 I would’ve probably said married with my second kid on the way and living in Japan, acting as a translator. (When I was 18 I lived in japan for 7 months! When I got back to the UK I just wanted to go back there asap!). However at 29 I have done a 360 and gone in a completely different direction… and I couldn’t be happier!   I have to start by saying I don’t feel…

  • In honour of Mental Health Awareness month …

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Zara, sold out but similar one here Blazer: Primark, sold out but similar one here T-shirt: Zara Skirts: Zara Shoes: Converse Handbag: Vintage, another bag I LOVE and would wear here, here I find it quite me to do a 360 turn on topics… last week ‘the blank slate…’ I talk about how much I want to not be so intense and serious. But after hearing so much about mental health; seeing the Frightened Rabbit, Scott Hutchinson, losing his battle with mental health and corrie covering the topic of male suicide makes me want to honour mental health awareness month.    I have always been a…

  • The blank slate…

      GET THE LOOK Jacket: ASOS Top: Primark (Since you cant order online via primark similar tops here and here) Skirt: H&M Boots: Raid Footwear I’ve reviewed my blog posts and damn they are so, so intense! So this combined with having a deep heart to heart with my step mum today has left me feeling emotionally drained and very very tired. I just want a blank slate…  To start anew and not be so damn serious all the time.  Looking over my posts you would think that I am this serious, introverted, geeky, nerd. Which to be fair I am to a degree. I am an anxious person and…

  • The type of love I don’t want…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: H&M Jacket: Zara, old (Similar one here) Jumper: H&M Bodysuit: Primark (So annoying you can’t order primark stuff online so here are other suggestions; here and here) Bottoms: Primark (Similar one here) Shoes: Converse I Have Nothing by Whitney Houston.  This was one of the songs I listened to on repeat when I was dating HM. HM was my first love… it was intense. It was as if any slight negative thing HM did/said to me broke my heart and left me in tears… I felt like he was my soulmate… like I NEEDED him to validate my existence.  I think first loves are always that intense…

  • “Where are you from..?” How I feel about being adopted.

      GET THE LOOK Jacket: Topshop, old (Similar ones here, here, lightweight version here) Earrings: Primark (Other suggestions here, want a different colour? green ones here, some cute pinky ones here) Necklace: Topshop, old (Other suggestions here, here, here) Top: Zara Jeans: Primark (Similar version here) Shoes; Primark (Similar ones here, or prefer kitten heels? here,  or more tassle power? here)   This is a question I have been asked so many times that I usually answer it with another question: originally or where I grew up? Because I NEVER, ever know how to answer that. I mentioned before in a previous post “are we all ignorant?” that AB hated being…

  • Self worth is a balancing act…

        GET THE LOOK Shirt: Primark (similar ones here, here, here) Dress: Primark (similar ones here, here, here) Shoes: Primark (similar ones here, here, here) Necklace: Vintage   I had a my first appointment with my new PT today. When asked about why I was there and what motivated me to go to the gym, I immediately thought about my perceptions on myself. How utterly low my self worth used to be. However self worth is a balancing act.. between being confident and being arrogant.    I love going to the gym. I know its not everyones cup of tea/pack of biscuits/type of pizza, but I LOVE it.  I used to struggle…

  • Are we all ignorant?…

    GET THE LOOK Crop Jacket: Zara Jumper: Zara, SOLD OUT, similar one from Missy Empire Jeans: Zara, SOLD OUT, similar one from here Handbag: Monki  Shoes: Primark   I feel like to some degree we all are, because isn’t it quite arrogant for someone to assume they know everything? … and if we are all in fact ignorant is that a bad thing?    If you were to put this question into very black and white terms then the answer would have to be no.  No, it is not good to be ignorant. Are you crazy? Who wants to be known as ignorant?   This notion came about when a…

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