• Career or Sex….

    GET THE LOOK Cardigan: New Look Dress: New Look, sold out (last checked 17/08/18). On ASOS. Shoes: New Look, old. Alternative here. Necklace: Vintage. Alternative here. Can you have both? Can you have a fulfilling sex life and yet go above and beyond for your career?   This is something that I’ve always thought wouldn’t be possible. Of course this is probably because I am a sex addict. That once I start I just do not want to stop. But then again maybe its because I haven’t ever looked forward to going to any of my jobs.  Bearing in mind I haven’t had a career job yet… or more accurately…

  • Ex’s… friend or backburner?

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Topshop, old. Alternative here. Bralet: New Look Dress: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Belt: Topshop, sold out. Similar one here. Handbag: Red Cuckoo, sold out. Similar one here. Shoes: Zara, sold out. Similar ones here.   Can an ex ever be a friend or, inevitably, end up a backburner?    I read an article in the Man Repeller blog by Haley Nahman called “Can You Be Friends With an Ex No Strings Attached?” and it struck a cord with me. Not because I entirely agreed with what was being said… not exactly.  I definitely didn’t agree with her assumption of “If you’re still friends with…

  • My Job situation…

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Topshop, old. Similar one here. Top: New Look Jeans: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Shoes: Primark, old. Alternative one here. My job situations is very up in the air at the moment. I am having a positive mind set but it is hard.   I have no clue what to do. I do not feel comfortable going into full detail what happened because I may still have to work there for my two week notice period.  But what I said on my instagram post is exactly what happened. My role was going to be outsourced by an external company and therefore I was no longer…

  • The back up plan…

      GET THE LOOK Earrings: Primark, alternative option here. Co ord: Primark, jacket OR similar one from boohoo in petite range here. Top: Primark, alternative option here. Belt: Primark Shoes: New Look My back up plan… It was something that I had been thinking in the back of my mind for quite sometime. A family. Starting one… or maybe not having one? I’m not 100% sure if I do want one… but what I do know is that I want a back up plan, just in case I do.   I mentioned before in my previous blog posts (The type of love I don’t want,,, being on of them)… that whenever…

  • I’m a Extroverted Introvert…

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one I would wear here . Blazer: Zara, old. Similar ones here and here. Top: Topshop, sold out. Similar ones here and here. Skirt: Topshop Shoes: Primark, cant find online. Alternative one here. Not an introverted extrovert. The wording order of this is very important… I think. I am loud, I am friendly, I am bubbly and most people would say I come across as confident, even cocky, (which I find quite surprising!) But because of that I would have to put the extrovert in front of Introvert.    These terms are quite common. I know I’ve used them a few times to describe…

  • Men are ‘dicks’ and women are ‘psychos’…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, similar one here and here Jacket: H&M, old, similar one here and here Body: Zara Skort: River Island Socks: ASOS Shoes: Primark, old, similar ones here The above statements are the common phrases or descriptions of ex’s ‘men are dicks’ (which they can be!) and ‘women are psychos’ (which we can be!).  BUT I think these phrases are SO overused and under-explained.    That is such a common phrase I’ve heard from guys… ‘my ex is a psycho. FULL STOP.’ And then thats it. (They obviously don’t say the full stop. I just wanted to emphasis it lol). No explanation. No reason. No backstory. Nothing.…

  • Baby, Talk is Cheap…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Primark Jacket: Primark, old. Alternative ones here and here. Top: Shein Skirt: H&M, old. Alternative ones here and here. Belt: Primark, old. Similar one here. Shoes: Miss Selfridges, old. Alternative ones here and here. This SNTC talk is cheap episode inspired me to right this post… if I have any SNTC fans then no I did not have a lick in the ass experience (recently!) but just the title in general have me thinking.    Talk IS cheap.  I remember saying/thinking that actions speak louder than words. However the reason why talk can be important is that it highlights INTENT. The intention can colour the way…

  • A Mini what I got for my birthday and a trip down memory lane…

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Shein Chocker: Topshop, old other options here and here Unitard: Motel Boots: River Island, old, other options here and here I say a mini what I got because I can not write too much about what I got for my birthday. Partly because I dunno what to say about how happy I am for all the thoughtful gifts without getting too mushy. My friends read my blog so… love you guys! ahaha! And another reason why its because I did a fantastic photoshoot with my friend Julie and I really, really want to use them photos too so here it goes! My ‘feeling fine at 29…’…

  • Feeling fine at 29…

      GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara Crop Top: Shein Bralet: Shein Skirt: Primark, similar one here and here Shoes: Nike If you asked me when I left school where I would be at 29 I would’ve probably said married with my second kid on the way and living in Japan, acting as a translator. (When I was 18 I lived in japan for 7 months! When I got back to the UK I just wanted to go back there asap!). However at 29 I have done a 360 and gone in a completely different direction… and I couldn’t be happier!   I have to start by saying I don’t feel…

  • In honour of Mental Health Awareness month …

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Zara, sold out but similar one here Blazer: Primark, sold out but similar one here T-shirt: Zara Skirts: Zara Shoes: Converse Handbag: Vintage, another bag I LOVE and would wear here, here I find it quite me to do a 360 turn on topics… last week ‘the blank slate…’ I talk about how much I want to not be so intense and serious. But after hearing so much about mental health; seeing the Frightened Rabbit, Scott Hutchinson, losing his battle with mental health and corrie covering the topic of male suicide makes me want to honour mental health awareness month.    I have always been a…

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