• Why am I a no make up blogger?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara Women, old. Alternative here. Top: Topshop, old. Alternative here.  (I would get this mens t-shirt and cut it up to make it cropped.) Choker: Zara, old. Alternative here. Trousers: River Island Shoes: Marks & Spencer, SOLD OUT. Alternative here. Bag: Present from Mum (No idea where its from sorry.) Alternative here. Why me doing me isn’t a dig at you doing you. The reason behind me deciding on being a no make up blogger came up the other day at work. Therefore I felt the need to write about it.    I decided to become a no make up blogger… yes thats right. From my…

  • Work to Live? Or Live to Work. Is one better?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara Jumper: Primark, can’t find. Alternative one here. Jeans: Primark, can’t find. Similar one here. Shoes: Converse Photographer: Connull Drummond  Is there a better one? Work to live over Live to work? I suppose to think of this efficiently you need to understand the meaning of each. I know you know the saying, but I’ll bet your definition is different than anothers…  Everyones interpretations of sayings can be quite mixed. Which is awesome cause then it can lead to an open discussion.  I’ve been listening to a lot of podcasts recently, so I’ve been hearing ALOT of open discussions. I’ve switched from listening to music to…

  • My first trip to a Prison…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, cant find online. Alternative one here. Jacket: River Island, similar one here. Top: Zara Skirt: Zara Bumbag: Zara Boots: Depop, similar one here. I make it sound like a class trip or something…but there is no other way to put it. Today (Friday 12th) marks my first trip to a Prison. It was nerve racking and intimidating as fuck.  I actually had my mind set on writing about a completely different topic. I had the layout all set in my mind and I even had a beginning, middle and ending planned out.  Which is unusual for me. I tend to just write by ear. But…

  • Meat eater attending a Vegan Pamper Night…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, can’t find online. Alternative here. Coat: Primark Jumper: Primark, can’t find online. Alternative here. Skirt: Zara Socks: Old. Alternative here. Shoes: Primark, can’t find online. Alternative here. Photographer: Lina I initially felt really uncomfortable attending a Vegan Pamper Night when I am NOT Vegan. I am a meat eater and not going to lie… I love meat.    I didn’t want to go originally because I felt like I was being fake or I would get a lecture to from Vegans about why eating meat is bad and guilt me into being Vegan. (Another factor was, since I am unemployed, I felt like going to…

  • Where do you get your over confidence from!?

    GET THE LOOK Cardigan: Urban Outfitters, sold out. Similar one here. T-shirt: Zara Skirt: Primark, not online. Alternative one here. Trainers: Primark, not online. Similar one here. Bag: Primark, not online. Alternative one here. Scarf: Vintage Photographer: Romy Binkhurst Now this is a question I have never been asked by someone but after being told I come across as over confident several times, from a personal and business perspective has left me reflective… what a surprise! So where do I get my over confidence persona from when I am actually an anxious bubbling mess most of the time?   I am quite surprised that I have been termed as over…

  • Did you know it’s Suicide Prevention Month…?

    GET THE LOOK Chocker: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Jacket: Primark. Similar one here. Bag: Parfois  Playsuit: Zara Bralet: Vintage, Similar one here. Skirt: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Boots: Vintage. Alternative one here. Of course you did! My feed has been flooded with Suicide Prevention Month quotes/statements/stories! This is an incredibly positive step forward! The more we talk about it the easier it will be for those to open up.    I have done some research into this topic. If you guys want to read the same report and data as I have then here it is.  I have had my own personal experiences with suicidal thoughts…

  • Celibacy Dating, is it worth it?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Top: Topshop, old. Alternative one here. Bottoms: Zara Shoes: Converse Bag: Vintage. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst   In lamest terms. For me, yes. But is celibacy dating worth it for the guy? That is all down to him and how much he wants to get to know me for me.    My biggest worry has always been about the other person.  I originally didn’t want to date while on my celibacy kick because I didn’t want to go into the reasoning behind it and I couldn’t be assed with the bull shit. As I explained…

  • Career or Sex….

    GET THE LOOK Cardigan: New Look Dress: New Look, sold out (last checked 17/08/18). On ASOS. Shoes: New Look, old. Alternative here. Necklace: Vintage. Alternative here. Can you have both? Can you have a fulfilling sex life and yet go above and beyond for your career?   This is something that I’ve always thought wouldn’t be possible. Of course this is probably because I am a sex addict. That once I start I just do not want to stop. But then again maybe its because I haven’t ever looked forward to going to any of my jobs.  Bearing in mind I haven’t had a career job yet… or more accurately…

  • Sex Detox… when you’re just done…

    GET THE LOOK Choker: Primark, old. Similar one here. Jumpsuit: Primark. Similar one here. Handbag: Zara, old. Similar one here. Shoes: Primark My Sex detox was definitely long overdue. Caz had been telling me for a while that I should just cut out guys and sex all together. And I had been mulling it over for a bit but it wasn’t until I had that one last casual sexual encounter… and I realised I’ve just had enough…   As I have previously stated in numerous blog posts (“The back up plan…”), that I am the type of person that I’ll just keep trying until I can not physically try anymore. …

  • Ex’s… friend or backburner?

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Topshop, old. Alternative here. Bralet: New Look Dress: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Belt: Topshop, sold out. Similar one here. Handbag: Red Cuckoo, sold out. Similar one here. Shoes: Zara, sold out. Similar ones here.   Can an ex ever be a friend or, inevitably, end up a backburner?    I read an article in the Man Repeller blog by Haley Nahman called “Can You Be Friends With an Ex No Strings Attached?” and it struck a cord with me. Not because I entirely agreed with what was being said… not exactly.  I definitely didn’t agree with her assumption of “If you’re still friends with…

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