• How do you define ‘success’?

    GET THE LOOK Scarf: Christmas Pressie. Coat: Primark, can’t find online. Similar here. Top: New Look, old. Similar here. Skirt: Zara, old. Similar here. Fleece Tights: Primark, old. Similar here. Shoes: Zara, old. Similar here. Photographer: Connull Drummond This is hard for me to explain concisely… basically the definition of success is entirely situational. It is/should be unique to you as an individual based on your personal expectations and capabilities.    The definition of success is clarified in the Collins English dictionary as;  “the achievement of something that you have been trying to do.” which I actually agree with… which is surprising. Sometimes when I look up the meaning of…

  • Readjusting dynamics…

    GET THE LOOK Baker Hat: Primark, sold out. Similar here. Earrings: Zara, sold out. Alternative (that I would wear with alternative skirt) here. Jumper: Topshop, old. Similar here. Skirt: Boohoo, old. Alternative here. Over the knee sock: H&M Trainers: Primark, sold out. Similar here. Photographer: Connull Drummond When your circumstances change you need to change with it or your gonna stress yourself out. Or if you anything like me get lazy af!    I haven’t had much time to think about this weeks blog post… In fact there were two topics that sprung to mind when I was thinking about what to write; how I get my blog writing inspirations…

  • Work to Live? Or Live to Work. Is one better?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara Jumper: Primark, can’t find. Alternative one here. Jeans: Primark, can’t find. Similar one here. Shoes: Converse Photographer: Connull Drummond  Is there a better one? Work to live over Live to work? I suppose to think of this efficiently you need to understand the meaning of each. I know you know the saying, but I’ll bet your definition is different than anothers…  Everyones interpretations of sayings can be quite mixed. Which is awesome cause then it can lead to an open discussion.  I’ve been listening to a lot of podcasts recently, so I’ve been hearing ALOT of open discussions. I’ve switched from listening to music to…

  • My first trip to a Prison…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, cant find online. Alternative one here. Jacket: River Island, similar one here. Top: Zara Skirt: Zara Bumbag: Zara Boots: Depop, similar one here. I make it sound like a class trip or something…but there is no other way to put it. Today (Friday 12th) marks my first trip to a Prison. It was nerve racking and intimidating as fuck.  I actually had my mind set on writing about a completely different topic. I had the layout all set in my mind and I even had a beginning, middle and ending planned out.  Which is unusual for me. I tend to just write by ear. But…

  • Winter is here…

    GET THE LOOK Long Jacket: Primark, can’t find online. Similar one here. Polo: Zara Jeans: Zara Shoes: Zara, old. Alternative ones here. Second Bomber Jacket: Zara It is that time of year again guys… winter is here and its boltic! Unlike all my other fellow beautiful bloggers who love winter, I HATE it. I hate being cold, I hate lugging around heavy jackets when am warm inside shops but freezing my ass off when am outside. But what IS fun is getting that new warm winter coat that keeps you all cosy 🙂    Recently I went up to Aberdeen for a mini family reunion and was thankfully treated to…

  • Meat eater attending a Vegan Pamper Night…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, can’t find online. Alternative here. Coat: Primark Jumper: Primark, can’t find online. Alternative here. Skirt: Zara Socks: Old. Alternative here. Shoes: Primark, can’t find online. Alternative here. Photographer: Lina I initially felt really uncomfortable attending a Vegan Pamper Night when I am NOT Vegan. I am a meat eater and not going to lie… I love meat.    I didn’t want to go originally because I felt like I was being fake or I would get a lecture to from Vegans about why eating meat is bad and guilt me into being Vegan. (Another factor was, since I am unemployed, I felt like going to…

  • Where do you get your over confidence from!?

    GET THE LOOK Cardigan: Urban Outfitters, sold out. Similar one here. T-shirt: Zara Skirt: Primark, not online. Alternative one here. Trainers: Primark, not online. Similar one here. Bag: Primark, not online. Alternative one here. Scarf: Vintage Photographer: Romy Binkhurst Now this is a question I have never been asked by someone but after being told I come across as over confident several times, from a personal and business perspective has left me reflective… what a surprise! So where do I get my over confidence persona from when I am actually an anxious bubbling mess most of the time?   I am quite surprised that I have been termed as over…

  • Did you know it’s Suicide Prevention Month…?

    GET THE LOOK Chocker: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Jacket: Primark. Similar one here. Bag: Parfois  Playsuit: Zara Bralet: Vintage, Similar one here. Skirt: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Boots: Vintage. Alternative one here. Of course you did! My feed has been flooded with Suicide Prevention Month quotes/statements/stories! This is an incredibly positive step forward! The more we talk about it the easier it will be for those to open up.    I have done some research into this topic. If you guys want to read the same report and data as I have then here it is.  I have had my own personal experiences with suicidal thoughts…

  • The Relationship overview …

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, Similar one here. Jacket: H&M Shirt Dress: Zara, sold out. Alternative option (with shoulder detail) here OR Alternative option (with similar stripe detailing) here. Waist belt: ASOS, old. VERY fun alternative Vinyl look one here. (Actually wish I saw this one so I could wear it with the outfit.) Shoes: Primark, can’t find online. Similar option from ASOS with thicker heel here. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst I, with the help of KS, had a mini relationship revelation. Hence why I am having a relationship overview. Before you get excited no I am not with KS… I like his chilled nature and he is easy to bounce wonderments…

  • Celibacy Dating, is it worth it?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Top: Topshop, old. Alternative one here. Bottoms: Zara Shoes: Converse Bag: Vintage. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst   In lamest terms. For me, yes. But is celibacy dating worth it for the guy? That is all down to him and how much he wants to get to know me for me.    My biggest worry has always been about the other person.  I originally didn’t want to date while on my celibacy kick because I didn’t want to go into the reasoning behind it and I couldn’t be assed with the bull shit. As I explained…

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