• The 2018 Review: Part 3 (The Last one!)

    September   Celibacy Dating, is it worth it?   It feels so weird re-reading this as I was chatting about celibacy dating then and now I am currently chilling in my room with my boyfriend… and we definitely don’t have a that sort of dynamic! Ahaha. It feels weird because I’m in such a different place now. This post talks about how I tend to put the others feelings before my own – especially sexually. I would usually feel quite frustrated and annoyed at myself. I felt my inhibitions were stopping me from utilising sex to its maximum capacity. I am too busy being in my own head and worrying…

  • Everything happens for a reason, heres why…

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: ASOS, old. Similar one here. T-shirt: ASOS. Dress: Zara, old.Similar one here. and alternative, fun one here. Belt: Topshop, old. Similar one here and alternative one here. Trainers: Primark Scarf: Old Pressie. Photographer: Connull Drummond  It’s such a cliche isn’t it? Everything happens for a reason. I know people hate cliches but I don’t. They are cliches for a purpose. Check out my thoughts on cliches and this one in particular.   My go-to online dictionary has defined a cliche as a noun that “is a trite, stereotyped expression…a popular or common thought or that, that has lost originality… impact by long overuse”. Of course it…

  • Should the best defence really be an offence?

       GET THE LOOK Overcoat: Zara, summer sale find. Similar here. Cardigan: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar here. Dress: Next Boots: Zara, old. Alternative here. Scarf: Present. Alternative here. Photographer: Connull Drummond This is following from my previous post. The best defence/is offence mentality is so ingrained in us that we don’t even realise that we are even doing it.    By that I mean we do it before we even realise. The thoughts zip across our mind before we can even fully register it; that is what we are even doing. As I’ve said in the previous post Why am I a no make up blogger? This mentality, of putting…

  • Finding the motivation…

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: New Look Necklace: Old, Similar here. Top: Primark Dress: Primark x Stacey Soloman Boots: Raid, Old. Similar here. Bag: Michael Kors I’ve been asked this before, by several people where I find the motivation/drive/time/energy to do what I do on the daily basis (i.e work all day, go to the gym, meal prep, do shoots, research, listen to podcast and other daily blogger duties.) and my answer usually differs depending on who I am speaking to.  To put this concisely i genuinely don’t know where i get the motivation from. The main reason why I answer everyone differently because it depends on who they are as…

  • Readjusting dynamics…

    GET THE LOOK Baker Hat: Primark, sold out. Similar here. Earrings: Zara, sold out. Alternative (that I would wear with alternative skirt) here. Jumper: Topshop, old. Similar here. Skirt: Boohoo, old. Alternative here. Over the knee sock: H&M Trainers: Primark, sold out. Similar here. Photographer: Connull Drummond When your circumstances change you need to change with it or your gonna stress yourself out. Or if you anything like me get lazy af!    I haven’t had much time to think about this weeks blog post… In fact there were two topics that sprung to mind when I was thinking about what to write; how I get my blog writing inspirations…

  • My first trip to a Prison…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, cant find online. Alternative one here. Jacket: River Island, similar one here. Top: Zara Skirt: Zara Bumbag: Zara Boots: Depop, similar one here. I make it sound like a class trip or something…but there is no other way to put it. Today (Friday 12th) marks my first trip to a Prison. It was nerve racking and intimidating as fuck.  I actually had my mind set on writing about a completely different topic. I had the layout all set in my mind and I even had a beginning, middle and ending planned out.  Which is unusual for me. I tend to just write by ear. But…

  • Did you know it’s Suicide Prevention Month…?

    GET THE LOOK Chocker: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Jacket: Primark. Similar one here. Bag: Parfois  Playsuit: Zara Bralet: Vintage, Similar one here. Skirt: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Boots: Vintage. Alternative one here. Of course you did! My feed has been flooded with Suicide Prevention Month quotes/statements/stories! This is an incredibly positive step forward! The more we talk about it the easier it will be for those to open up.    I have done some research into this topic. If you guys want to read the same report and data as I have then here it is.  I have had my own personal experiences with suicidal thoughts…

  • The Relationship overview …

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, Similar one here. Jacket: H&M Shirt Dress: Zara, sold out. Alternative option (with shoulder detail) here OR Alternative option (with similar stripe detailing) here. Waist belt: ASOS, old. VERY fun alternative Vinyl look one here. (Actually wish I saw this one so I could wear it with the outfit.) Shoes: Primark, can’t find online. Similar option from ASOS with thicker heel here. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst I, with the help of KS, had a mini relationship revelation. Hence why I am having a relationship overview. Before you get excited no I am not with KS… I like his chilled nature and he is easy to bounce wonderments…

  • Celibacy Dating, is it worth it?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Top: Topshop, old. Alternative one here. Bottoms: Zara Shoes: Converse Bag: Vintage. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst   In lamest terms. For me, yes. But is celibacy dating worth it for the guy? That is all down to him and how much he wants to get to know me for me.    My biggest worry has always been about the other person.  I originally didn’t want to date while on my celibacy kick because I didn’t want to go into the reasoning behind it and I couldn’t be assed with the bull shit. As I explained…

  • Are you all about the destination or the journey?

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Old. (been looking for stone UK jewellers. Set me some links guys!) Jacket: Primark, sold out. Similar one here. Body: Primark Jeans: Zara Shoes: Converse If you are a goal orientated person (i.e about the destination) does that mean that you can not be deviated by life curve balls and change them? (i.e the journey influences the type of end?)   I have chopped and changed my mind about this question on and off my entire life.  When I was younger there was an expectation. It is/was expected to go to university. Not a possibility but a society necessity.  I feel that is slooooooowly yet surely…

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