• The Relationship overview …

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, Similar one here. Jacket: H&M Shirt Dress: Zara, sold out. Alternative option (with shoulder detail) here OR Alternative option (with similar stripe detailing) here. Waist belt: ASOS, old. VERY fun alternative Vinyl look one here. (Actually wish I saw this one so I could wear it with the outfit.) Shoes: Primark, can’t find online. Similar option from ASOS with thicker heel here. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst I, with the help of KS, had a mini relationship revelation. Hence why I am having a relationship overview. Before you get excited no I am not with KS… I like his chilled nature and he is easy to bounce wonderments…

  • Celibacy Dating, is it worth it?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Top: Topshop, old. Alternative one here. Bottoms: Zara Shoes: Converse Bag: Vintage. Photographer: Romy Binkhorst   In lamest terms. For me, yes. But is celibacy dating worth it for the guy? That is all down to him and how much he wants to get to know me for me.    My biggest worry has always been about the other person.  I originally didn’t want to date while on my celibacy kick because I didn’t want to go into the reasoning behind it and I couldn’t be assed with the bull shit. As I explained…

  • Career or Sex….

    GET THE LOOK Cardigan: New Look Dress: New Look, sold out (last checked 17/08/18). On ASOS. Shoes: New Look, old. Alternative here. Necklace: Vintage. Alternative here. Can you have both? Can you have a fulfilling sex life and yet go above and beyond for your career?   This is something that I’ve always thought wouldn’t be possible. Of course this is probably because I am a sex addict. That once I start I just do not want to stop. But then again maybe its because I haven’t ever looked forward to going to any of my jobs.  Bearing in mind I haven’t had a career job yet… or more accurately…

  • Sex Detox… when you’re just done…

    GET THE LOOK Choker: Primark, old. Similar one here. Jumpsuit: Primark. Similar one here. Handbag: Zara, old. Similar one here. Shoes: Primark My Sex detox was definitely long overdue. Caz had been telling me for a while that I should just cut out guys and sex all together. And I had been mulling it over for a bit but it wasn’t until I had that one last casual sexual encounter… and I realised I’ve just had enough…   As I have previously stated in numerous blog posts (“The back up plan…”), that I am the type of person that I’ll just keep trying until I can not physically try anymore. …

  • Ex’s… friend or backburner?

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Topshop, old. Alternative here. Bralet: New Look Dress: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Belt: Topshop, sold out. Similar one here. Handbag: Red Cuckoo, sold out. Similar one here. Shoes: Zara, sold out. Similar ones here.   Can an ex ever be a friend or, inevitably, end up a backburner?    I read an article in the Man Repeller blog by Haley Nahman called “Can You Be Friends With an Ex No Strings Attached?” and it struck a cord with me. Not because I entirely agreed with what was being said… not exactly.  I definitely didn’t agree with her assumption of “If you’re still friends with…

  • My Job situation…

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Topshop, old. Similar one here. Top: New Look Jeans: Zara, sold out. Alternative one here. Shoes: Primark, old. Alternative one here. My job situations is very up in the air at the moment. I am having a positive mind set but it is hard.   I have no clue what to do. I do not feel comfortable going into full detail what happened because I may still have to work there for my two week notice period.  But what I said on my instagram post is exactly what happened. My role was going to be outsourced by an external company and therefore I was no longer…

  • Your happy place…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: H&M, sold out. Alternative option here. Blazer: River Island Lace Body: H&M Flares: Zara, old. Similar petite version here. Loafers: H&M Bag: Marc Jacobs bag, vintage. Alternative option here. That is such a used expression… your happy place. I think I’ve heard that saying at least 100 times throughout my life. Not because I knew a lot of people that had that as their cute saying.. but more like through tv, movies, books, advice. So now am going to talk about my happy place… and how it isn’t a physical place at all.. well it doesnt need to be. Its more like a place in your…

  • Why I am a big believer in divorce…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Top: River Island, sold out. Alternative one here and a lighter denim one here. Shorts: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Heels: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Bag: Zara, old. Alternative one here. I remember I did this as an option post on my twitter… I tend to do little polls on there whenever I am struggling to pick a topic to do and this one received no votes what-so-ever and I couldn’t figure out why… then I realised my followers probably thought I am going to talk about how sad I was about my parents divorcing – when in actual fact I…

  • The back up plan…

      GET THE LOOK Earrings: Primark, alternative option here. Co ord: Primark, jacket OR similar one from boohoo in petite range here. Top: Primark, alternative option here. Belt: Primark Shoes: New Look My back up plan… It was something that I had been thinking in the back of my mind for quite sometime. A family. Starting one… or maybe not having one? I’m not 100% sure if I do want one… but what I do know is that I want a back up plan, just in case I do.   I mentioned before in my previous blog posts (The type of love I don’t want,,, being on of them)… that whenever…

  • I’m a Extroverted Introvert…

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one I would wear here . Blazer: Zara, old. Similar ones here and here. Top: Topshop, sold out. Similar ones here and here. Skirt: Topshop Shoes: Primark, cant find online. Alternative one here. Not an introverted extrovert. The wording order of this is very important… I think. I am loud, I am friendly, I am bubbly and most people would say I come across as confident, even cocky, (which I find quite surprising!) But because of that I would have to put the extrovert in front of Introvert.    These terms are quite common. I know I’ve used them a few times to describe…

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