• Everything happens for a reason, heres why…

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: ASOS, old. Similar one here. T-shirt: ASOS. Dress: Zara, old.Similar one here. and alternative, fun one here. Belt: Topshop, old. Similar one here and alternative one here. Trainers: Primark Scarf: Old Pressie. Photographer: Connull Drummond  It’s such a cliche isn’t it? Everything happens for a reason. I know people hate cliches but I don’t. They are cliches for a purpose. Check out my thoughts on cliches and this one in particular.   My go-to online dictionary has defined a cliche as a noun that “is a trite, stereotyped expression…a popular or common thought or that, that has lost originality… impact by long overuse”. Of course it…

  • Work to Live? Or Live to Work. Is one better?

    GET THE LOOK Jacket: Zara Jumper: Primark, can’t find. Alternative one here. Jeans: Primark, can’t find. Similar one here. Shoes: Converse Photographer: Connull Drummond  Is there a better one? Work to live over Live to work? I suppose to think of this efficiently you need to understand the meaning of each. I know you know the saying, but I’ll bet your definition is different than anothers…  Everyones interpretations of sayings can be quite mixed. Which is awesome cause then it can lead to an open discussion.  I’ve been listening to a lot of podcasts recently, so I’ve been hearing ALOT of open discussions. I’ve switched from listening to music to…

  • Did you know it’s Suicide Prevention Month…?

    GET THE LOOK Chocker: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Jacket: Primark. Similar one here. Bag: Parfois  Playsuit: Zara Bralet: Vintage, Similar one here. Skirt: Miss Selfridge, old. Similar one here. Boots: Vintage. Alternative one here. Of course you did! My feed has been flooded with Suicide Prevention Month quotes/statements/stories! This is an incredibly positive step forward! The more we talk about it the easier it will be for those to open up.    I have done some research into this topic. If you guys want to read the same report and data as I have then here it is.  I have had my own personal experiences with suicidal thoughts…

  • Are you all about the destination or the journey?

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Old. (been looking for stone UK jewellers. Set me some links guys!) Jacket: Primark, sold out. Similar one here. Body: Primark Jeans: Zara Shoes: Converse If you are a goal orientated person (i.e about the destination) does that mean that you can not be deviated by life curve balls and change them? (i.e the journey influences the type of end?)   I have chopped and changed my mind about this question on and off my entire life.  When I was younger there was an expectation. It is/was expected to go to university. Not a possibility but a society necessity.  I feel that is slooooooowly yet surely…

  • Sex Detox… when you’re just done…

    GET THE LOOK Choker: Primark, old. Similar one here. Jumpsuit: Primark. Similar one here. Handbag: Zara, old. Similar one here. Shoes: Primark My Sex detox was definitely long overdue. Caz had been telling me for a while that I should just cut out guys and sex all together. And I had been mulling it over for a bit but it wasn’t until I had that one last casual sexual encounter… and I realised I’ve just had enough…   As I have previously stated in numerous blog posts (“The back up plan…”), that I am the type of person that I’ll just keep trying until I can not physically try anymore. …

  • Your happy place…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: H&M, sold out. Alternative option here. Blazer: River Island Lace Body: H&M Flares: Zara, old. Similar petite version here. Loafers: H&M Bag: Marc Jacobs bag, vintage. Alternative option here. That is such a used expression… your happy place. I think I’ve heard that saying at least 100 times throughout my life. Not because I knew a lot of people that had that as their cute saying.. but more like through tv, movies, books, advice. So now am going to talk about my happy place… and how it isn’t a physical place at all.. well it doesnt need to be. Its more like a place in your…

  • Why I am a big believer in divorce…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Top: River Island, sold out. Alternative one here and a lighter denim one here. Shorts: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Heels: Zara, old. Alternative one here. Bag: Zara, old. Alternative one here. I remember I did this as an option post on my twitter… I tend to do little polls on there whenever I am struggling to pick a topic to do and this one received no votes what-so-ever and I couldn’t figure out why… then I realised my followers probably thought I am going to talk about how sad I was about my parents divorcing – when in actual fact I…

  • I’m a Extroverted Introvert…

    GET THE LOOK Necklace: Zara, old. Alternative one I would wear here . Blazer: Zara, old. Similar ones here and here. Top: Topshop, sold out. Similar ones here and here. Skirt: Topshop Shoes: Primark, cant find online. Alternative one here. Not an introverted extrovert. The wording order of this is very important… I think. I am loud, I am friendly, I am bubbly and most people would say I come across as confident, even cocky, (which I find quite surprising!) But because of that I would have to put the extrovert in front of Introvert.    These terms are quite common. I know I’ve used them a few times to describe…

  • Men are ‘dicks’ and women are ‘psychos’…

    GET THE LOOK Hat: Primark, similar one here and here Jacket: H&M, old, similar one here and here Body: Zara Skort: River Island Socks: ASOS Shoes: Primark, old, similar ones here The above statements are the common phrases or descriptions of ex’s ‘men are dicks’ (which they can be!) and ‘women are psychos’ (which we can be!).  BUT I think these phrases are SO overused and under-explained.    That is such a common phrase I’ve heard from guys… ‘my ex is a psycho. FULL STOP.’ And then thats it. (They obviously don’t say the full stop. I just wanted to emphasis it lol). No explanation. No reason. No backstory. Nothing.…

  • Baby, Talk is Cheap…

    GET THE LOOK Earrings: Primark Jacket: Primark, old. Alternative ones here and here. Top: Shein Skirt: H&M, old. Alternative ones here and here. Belt: Primark, old. Similar one here. Shoes: Miss Selfridges, old. Alternative ones here and here. This SNTC talk is cheap episode inspired me to right this post… if I have any SNTC fans then no I did not have a lick in the ass experience (recently!) but just the title in general have me thinking.    Talk IS cheap.  I remember saying/thinking that actions speak louder than words. However the reason why talk can be important is that it highlights INTENT. The intention can colour the way…

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